Father’s Day
6/29/2022
Just two days after discharge from the hospital, Ian was well enough for a visit from the kids and his folks (who all cleared Covid). Neither of us had seen our boys in two months – and the timing was perfect to celebrate Father’s Day! To be cautious of germs, they stayed in a nearby hotel and visits were mostly outside. Over three days, we toured Duke and Durham; hiked to a swimming hole; explored a nature center; swam in our pool; and waked our lake. Each day, Ian went to a clinic appointment and a nap, so he was not party to the big adventures, but still was able to enjoy our quiet time together.
On Father’s Day, Ian’s clinic visit was very short and then we all went to the picturesque Duke Gardens. The kids came dressed in their Harry Potter robes and presented Ian with a handmade sign, cards and big hugs! We wandered slowly through the gardens, kicked the soccer ball and picnicked under a tree. It was a perfect Father’s Day – Ian with has kids and his Dad!
After the family left town, Ian was exhausted! We were reminded how tiring the kids are and how much we appreciate our parents for tending to them during this time. The next week, Ian’s clinic schedule decreased to only Monday-Wednesday-Friday. His “numbers” are improving faster than anticipated, so he doesn’t need to be seen every day. Ian was very happy about finally being able to sleep in! All was well for a few days, but then he was hit with a period of debilitating headaches followed by intense vomiting. Lab work revealed that his “tacrolimus” number was way to high, which was causing the symptoms. Tacrolimus is an immunosuppressive drug and it seems his body is absorbing it well, so the dosage just needed to be reduced. Once his tac levels went down, he was fine. It’s not fun, but we are now used to this crazy roller coaster ride.
Back in Greenville, there was another changing of the guard. Bruce and Kathie had been with the kids for 6 weeks (bless their hearts!) and it was finally time to hit the road back to Seattle. As you can imagine, B&K settled in quickly and filled our shoes nicely. In no time, they had our friends on speed dial and took our spots at the pool. They kept the kids well fed and entertained and shepherded them to swim practices and swim meets (including a late night after-party!). Thanks to everyone in Gower who made them feel welcome! No doubt they will be missed!
Next up, is my Dad Mark and Pam. Since they pass right by me on I-85, they stopped for a lunch date 😊
